Confront sacrifice
with hope against suicide
90%
of donated funds go directly to
families in immediate need.
(10% administration)
The Folds of the Flame
The Folds of the Flame is a dual-focused initiative within the first responder and military communities, dedicated to raising awareness and preventing suicides among these heroes who protect our communities. Recognizing the unique challenges they face, our primary mission is to foster mental well-being through unity, support, and empathy. While we strive to prevent suicides, we also understand that, tragically, they do occur, leaving families to grapple with the devastating aftermath. In response, The Folds of the Flame is equally committed to providing immediate “Post-vention” support to help families navigate this profoundly tragic and life-altering time.
As certified safeTALK instructors and ASIST-trained responders, we equip individuals with the tools needed to recognize and support those in crisis. Driven by a passion for suicide prevention, we developed and authored the saferCARE suicide awareness and mitigation model (Suicide Awareness For Emergency Responders; Connect, Assess, Respond, Evaluate). This model emphasizes the importance of identifying suicidal ideations and invitations, while empowering emergency responders to mitigate crises effectively and connect individuals with essential community resources.
8%
OF FIRE FIGHTERS
HAD SUICIDAL
THOUGHTS OR IDEAS
5%
OF FIRE FIGHTERS
MADE A SUICIDAL
ATTEMPT
2%
OF FIRE FIGHTERS
MADE PLANS TO
COMMIT SUICIDE
Acting on a Need
Retired Air Force Fire Chief MSgt Ashontay Owens dedicated his career to safeguarding both local and military communities, willingly risking his life every day. Serving as incident commander for numerous emergencies, Chief Owens lived by the motto “Everyone Comes Home Safe”—a principle he carried both on and off duty. Throughout his 20+ years in the Air Force, he witnessed firsthand the devastating impact of suicides among military personnel and first responders, reinforcing the urgent need for greater awareness, training, and early intervention.
Determined to make a difference, Chief Owens pursued a double master’s degree in human services and clinical counseling, driven by the belief that not all wounds are visible and that suicide can be prevented through proactive measures. Alongside efforts to promote mental wellness, Folds of the Flame remains committed to providing immediate post-vention support, helping families navigate the painful aftermath of suicide and ensuring that no one has to face their loss alone.
We are prepared and poised for action when the bell rings
The Folds of the Flame” evokes a strong image of unity, strength, and camaraderie within the first responder community, and we believe that mental health is as important as physical health. Our team is composed of passionate individuals, including firefighters, mental health professionals, and advocates, who are committed to creating a culture of resilience and empowerment within the first responder community.
Through education, advocacy, and peer support, we strive to eliminate the stigma surrounding mental health issues and provide our heroes with the resources they need to prioritize their well-being. We offer a safe space for open dialogue, where our heroes can share their experiences, seek guidance, and access the support they deserve.
Together, we are united in our mission to ensure that every first responder knows they are valued, supported, and never alone. Join us in our journey to fold our strengths and experiences into a powerful shield against the darkness, illuminating the path towards mental wellness and resilience for all those who bravely serve in the line of duty.”
"The energy of the mind is the essence of life."
Aristotle
When the Bell Tolls This is How We Respond
The Folds of the Flame Foundation offers financial assistance to cover immediate needs such as housing bills, grocery vouchers, schooling costs, and funeral arrangements for families affected by the loss of a first responder. This support is crucial in alleviating the financial burden placed on families during times of crisis.
Providing funds for housing bills ensures that families can maintain stability in their living situations, preventing additional stress during an already challenging time. Grocery vouchers help ensure that basic needs are met, easing the strain of daily expenses. Covering schooling costs ensures that children can continue their education uninterrupted, despite the family’s hardship.
Additionally, offering assistance with funeral arrangements helps alleviate the financial strain of laying a loved one to rest, allowing families to focus on grieving and healing rather than worrying about expenses.
The importance of this foundation cannot be overstated. By providing financial support for immediate needs, the Folds of the Flame Foundation offers comfort and relief to families during their darkest moments. It honors the sacrifices made by first responders and ensures that their families are cared for and supported in times of crisis.
The Survival Bell
THE YOKE
The STAR & THE RIBBON
In the heart of the “Waist,” a black star honors our fallen heroes, intertwined in gold to honor our “Gold Star Families.”
THE CRACK
THE FLAG
THE SOUND BOW
Folds of the Flame has evolved from our initial “ideation” into a lifeline. This survival bell serves as a poignant reminder of those who bravely risk their lives daily to safeguard our communities and nation. It inspires us to support and educate their loved ones in need. We extend our deepest appreciation to all who heed the call.
